“Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be.”
Divorce Mediation
Empowering Transitions, Fostering Resolutions
You’ve taken the first step towards navigating the process of ending your marriage and exploring your options. Fortunately, you've come to the right place. I am a seasoned counselor and certified divorce mediator, who specializes in conflict resolution through the use of strong boundaries, making me the ideal candidate to help you navigate your divorce. I am uniquely equipped to assist you in resolving disputes and facilitating negotiations that result put you in control, not the court system.
Far too often, divorce is portrayed as a battlefield, filled with tension and the destruction of bridges. Mediation allows parties to create their own solutions, build a new foundation for communication, and help close a chapter so a new one can begin. I will serve as neutral third party to help balance everyone’s interests and desires so that you can come to decisions that are in the best interest for you now and in the future.
What can you expect from Mediation?
Considerable Financial Savings:
Mediation is typically more cost-effective than traditional litigation. By avoiding lengthy court battles, couples can save both time and money. You also only pay for the sessions you schedule. There are no retainers or hidden fees.
Faster Resolution:
Mediation often leads to quicker resolutions compared to lengthy court processes. Couples can move forward with their lives and start the healing process sooner, which can be especially beneficial when children are involved.
You Retain Control:
The two of you make all decisions on what is a fair and equitable agreement. In traditional court proceedings unresolved issues could cost you a lot of time and money, and in some cases could be decided by a judge. My role is to be a neutral third party to nurture healthy communication, even when it has been difficult before, so that you can walk away with all issues resolved and decided by you.
Less Stress and Conflict:
Mediation promotes open and respectful communication, helping to reduce the stress and conflict often associated with divorce. This is particularly important when co-parenting is necessary, because while the marriage is ending, it preserves the respect for the family you have created. You will resolve conflicts about custody, visitation, and who pays for what together. This will create an environment where your children can feel financially and emotionally secure during this new chapter of all your lives.
Confidentiality:
Mediation sessions are confidential, providing a safe and private space for couples to address their issues. Unlike court proceedings, what is discussed in mediation remains private and does not become part of the public record.
A Memorandum of Understanding:
This is what you will walk away from mediation with. It will be all your decisions about money, possessions, and a parenting plan that felt fair and equitable to both parties. After this is completed, a single lawyer to file this document and a single session before a judge is usually sufficient to complete the process.
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Can I use insurance?
Unfortunately you are unable to use insurance for these services. You will be responsible for all fees at the time of your appointment.
Can you work with clients anywhere in the country?
Yes! As a Mediation client, you are able to live in any state, as these services do not use insurance and my certification allows me to work all over the country.
What if I’m not sure we’re a good fit?
Before scheduling a session, I do a free 15 minute intro call with all potential new clients. This gives us the chance to get to know each other.
Here’s what you can expect:
I will gather introductory information and ask that the other party contact me as well to move forward. I’ll tell you a bit about myself and my approach as a mediator. You can ask me any questions about the process that I didn’t cover. We’ll talk about rates and availability
*It is important to note that we will not get into information about your relationships until our first meeting, as its very important with mediation to discuss everything, outside of house keeping items or scheduling appointments, with both parties in the room.
So we’re a good fit. What next?
If we all decide we're a good fit after our intro call, we'll schedule our first appointment. I'll send you a couple of quick forms to complete before our first session. I'll also send you a link for our video calls that you can use every week.
What’s the first session like?
As a Therapist and Mediator, I have a collaborative, non-judgmental, and relatable approach that will make getting started a bit easier. During our first session or two, we will go over the process and timeline, discuss all fees, and information or documents that will be needed for the process
How often will we meet?
I meet with the majority of my clients on a weekly basis. There may be more time in-between meetings if time is needed to gather documents or connect with outside parties.
For my information about your state laws, the difference between mediation and litigated divorces, or tips on moving forward, healthy communication, & self care check out posts here.
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There is no one-size-fits-all mediation process. Essentially, it can take as much time as is necessary to resolve all disputes. The more complicated your divorce, the more time you’ll spend in mediation. For more information on the process explore these posts.
60 Minute Session - $300
Memoranda of Understanding - $500
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If you would like to read or learn more about Divorce Mediation to understand if mediation or my approach is right for you and your goals, please explore these posts or reach out with any questions or concerns!